The Player

Middle-aged with grown children. Separated after thirty-five years of marriage. (What happened? Ask me.) On my own for the first time in decades. Excited to be back in the single world again. Anxious to explore the dominant, polyamorous parts of my personality, which have been so veglected up to now.

I am a professional software engineer and a semi-professional actor, singer and musician. As an engineer, I pay careful attention to details, and I'm a perfectionist. I always try to get everything just right. That can make me a real pain in the ass sometimes. Learning to let myself and other people be less than perfect.

As an actor, I am a keen observer of people: their looks, mannerisms, accents, idioms, attitudes, behaviors and beliefs. The most important thing I've learned is that everybody else believes in their 'truth' as devoutely as I believe in mine.

I am completely open minded and almost entirely non-judgmental. Only two types of people get no sympathy from me: those who don't take proper care of children (their own and others'), and those who won't to take responsibility for the pain they cause. ("Well, I didn't MEAN to", is not an excuse, kids.) My only demand on others is that they offer me the same courtesy and respect.

Being a singer and musician hasn't taught me much about life, I guess. But it has brought untold joy into my life and, hopefully, the lives of others. One thing I've found is that women love to be sung to. Slow dancing to a romantic ballad, singing softly in your date's ear, to her alone, is a very intimate experience. [Grin]

I am intelligent and funny, with a wacky sense of humor; I love to make people laugh. I can hold my own in a discussion on almost any subject, and I am most interested in the subjects I don't yet know anything about Sometimes I talk too much, sometimes I'm very quiet. Emotionally sensitive, empathetic, gentle, understanding. Quick to anger; quick to make up. Absolutely non-violent. Sexually passionate, dominant, polyamorous. I enjoy meeting people of all kinds. I love sex of all kinds, women of all ages and types.

The Character

My Closest Friends

Cmdrs_Ambs

Always and forever my Lady

CmdrChris

Ambs' lover; my friend here

Texas_Teaser

My first lover in RLC; now my good friend

Carissa

My unseen friend; shares my love of greyhounds and bondage

TangoTeacher

My Brother-in-Arms; I hope you return soon

AnalSlut_AS

My newest close friend; hopefully much more soon

My Lovers

vixxy

By the gracious consent of her Master Vixmar

EvaPoland35

My European Lover; One of the best lays in RLC

LisaLuvs45

One of her many admirers

axuree

My newest lover; eager to see her again

Former Submissives

SweetBeatrice

My counselor/slave; still best of friends

JennySub

Once my Alpha Sub, now long separated; I miss her

Markira

My Lost slave; gone but not forgotten

My Household

vacant

Held open until I am settled in my new home and job.

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You scored as Dominator, You are a dominator! You love to be the one in control. Having that extra edge in a relationship gives you the excitement that you desire. You have the charisma and the talent to be a Master to your slavE. Playful 94% Dominator 94% Violent 38% Submissive 13% What kind of S&M person are you? created with QuizFarm.com

General Interests

• Acting
• singing
• bass and bass guitar
• Martial Arts
• reading
• concerts
• traveling
• singing
• movies
• spectator sports

Sexual Interests

• anywhere, anytime
• twosomes
• threesomes
• group sex
• BDSM
• voyeurism
• what have you got?