The key secret to this place, i think, is to find a group of people, or sometimes just that one person, who you feel completely comfortable with, and with whom you are eager and able to share everything from what you’re having for dinner to your deepest sexual desires.

I have great friends. But mostly, I have my wife, nicki. We’ve been through a lot together, in a number of relationship styles, and she has helped me to grow in my understanding of who I am and to be comfortable with all of my interests and how i can be most happy. You'll see that in how I act: sometimes dominant, sometimes submissive, hopefully always respectful.

I encourage everyone to use this place to have fun and explore your interests without worrying what others might think (as long as you're not hurting anyone). It's taken me time to let my hair down, as it were, but I've found that many of the doors that we think are closed to us remain closed simply because we choose not to open them. Open your doors. And, do as i have done, find someone who will help you to open those doors.

The other secret to this place, I think, is to have a lot of fun :) I am devoted to nicki, but I also play with others. I'm always happy to talk, flirt, and see where things go. If you’re interested in more, let's talk.

Please, have fun, and remember that we're all here to have fun.