 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People, Whatever's Clever |
| Marital Status: |
Single |
| Children: |
Eventually |
| Education: |
Post Grad |
| Religion: |
N/A |
| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
Yes |
| Occupation: |
N/A |
| Body Type: |
Athletic |
| Height: |
6' 5" |
| Ethnicity: |
Latino / Hispanic |
| Languages: |
English, Spanish, ASL |
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About me:
Don’t Delay; Don’t Second Guess; Don’t Doubt. When the Opportunity is There; When the Impulse is There; When the Intuitive Nudge from within is There, ACT!
NO CRAZY PEOPLE PLEASE!
BASIC INFO- 6'5" - 215 lbs - Mexican - CSU Fresno Graduate
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A FEW QUOTES THAT I HAVE WRITTEN:
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"Age is merely a number that tells the amount of time someone has been alive and is an irrelevant indicator of someone's character or who someone should associate with.."
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"People seem so scared and so anxious at times that they fail to realize that when things "click", they click, so don't pull back or push forward; let things run their course the way destiny has designed"
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"We tend to fall in love with someone not because they are perfect, but because we fall in love with their imperfections and we see that they are perfect for us."
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"There's a difference between being IN LOVE with someone and being USED TO them; when you LOVE someone, it's much easier to let go."
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"Just because it's meant to be, doesn't mean it will fall in your hands. Work for the things you want most in life and even if it wasn't meant to be.. it WILL be.."
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I recently graduated, again, from Fresno State. I now have a B.S. in Kinesiology - Exercise Science and an M.B.A - Marketing, Human Resources, and Entrepreneurship.
I am pretty serious, yet can be EXTREMELY sarcastic at times. I'm the type of guy that knows what he wants; some people say I can be demanding, but dont be intimidated. However, I can be a little stubborn in certain situations. I tend to be misunderstood because some people take my sarcasm the wrong way. The only people that don’t like me, DON’T KNOW me. It is very likely people judge me before they even speak to me. I don’t know what it is, but I guess my appearance leads people to placing a label on me. From my experiences, I've been told I seem like some "player" or just like "every other guy" but as all the people that have actually taken the time and effort to get to know me have figured out, I am not like that. For those that choose not to, because they THINK they know me, I will be whatever they make me out to be, because they go on to make up their own idea of what I’m like and join the bandwagon of ignorance. Yet I understand; as life’s experiences have taught them to not trust anyone. There ARE a lot of people out there that fu(k sh*t up for the rest of us. Then the people that are hurt begin to distrust the wrong people and when they do begin to trust, it’s the wrong people.
I don't like playing games; a lot of people insist on playing childish games to get what they want. Games only cause people to play more games, and lead to drama. Drama seems to be everywhere these days. Life would be so much easier if people were straight up with each other. We should stop beating around the bush. Being blunt can sometimes get you where you want to be much faster, depending on what it is that you want.
Bluntness can also help diminish some of the old-fashioned views people have nowadays. I believe that guys shouldn’t be obligated to approach a girl they like; girls should start taking the initiative when they like a guy too. Not only would it take the load off our backs, but many guys find it as a turn on when a girl shows confidence and makes the 1st move. I do understand that any type of relationship should be 50/50, so guys should give effort to show that they are interested as well. But it can be nice to know that a girl is willing to take time to plan out a date and take me out.
I like having fun.. Meeting new people, making new friends, and being around people that make me happy and like being around me.. I value friendship so much because true friends are fun and always there for you and can get you through life so much easier and will bring you happiness and laughter along the way..
Who I'd like to meet:
What am I looking for/What do i want in a girl?.. I ask myself that question sometimes.. and at times it may change but for the most part.. there are certain things that seem critical for me.. for everyone that has asked me what I look for in a girl.. or why I’m single.. here is your answer..
Yes.. looks DO get you in the door with me.. but its different in a way..at 1st it’s the attraction, but I also seem to be able to analyze certain people and get a vibe from looking at them..I read their body language and a few other things I can identify and I can make distinctions in their personality.. I’m not psychic though, I’ve just met a lot of people in my time and have noticed certain things that give away part of their personality to me.. people have verified that I’m actually fairly accurate. Yet.. I’ve learned that some looks may be deceiving; I’ve been hurt many times.. I guess I’m not too great at picking them..
But for the most part, when i look at someone.. i can usually see more than just their outer shell.. and if you’ve noticed that’s what most guys seem to go for.. but for me, that’s just not enough.. Yes.. i would like a girl who i am attracted to.. the thing is.. i want more than just a pretty face.. ive seen so many women out there that just have the looks and don’t seem to have anything else going for them.. its pretty sad.. one can almost make an assumption that the prettier the girl is.. the less she has to offer (I said ALMOST, not that one CAN)..
I want a girl that is not only my lover, but my best friend.. a girl who likes going out and knows how to have fun, but at the same time one that can stay in with me and just relax and spend time doing absolutely nothing.. i want a girl who is sophisticated, loyal, mature, smart, ambitious, witty, sexy, affectionate, cute, romantic, funny, understanding, open-minded, down to earth, trustworthy.. somebody who can realize her mistakes and admit to them.. someone who is not afraid to be herself or afraid to show me her weaknesses, but can also hold her own..a woman that knows what she wants and how to get it.. theres a big difference with wanting something and wanting EVERYTHING.. a lot of girls want everything they can get (attention, guys, gifts,etc) and they try to use their looks and a fake personality to “hustle” some guys.. they're either very superficial and materialistic.. or have a power trip and want all the attention they can get.. thats not what i want.
I want a girl with looks and personality.. a girl who is beautiful inside and out.. these days.. there are too many girls that, because of how stupid guys can be, grow a big head and expect every guy to give them the world.. that’s a big turn off.. if you want a typical guy..one who is dumb enough to put up with your shit..one who has nothing else to offer but give you material things then you’re looking in the wrong place by coming to me.. so turn away now.. you’re not worth my time..
I want a girl who is willing to put in effort.. a girl who not only will tell me she cares but will show/prove it.. too many women expect the man to do everything.. last time I checked.. a relationship involves 2 people.. so it’s up to the TWO people to make it work and last..
i dont want a girl who "knows" she's "hott". These girls usually are disrespectful, ignorant, and cocky … they want everything given to them. That’s not being high maintenance, that’s being selfish and those girls lack characteristics of having potential to be girlfriend/wifey material. You can call them eye candy.. but as we all know.. after a while..candy dissolves.. and what is left is the memory of the taste.. nothing else to look forward to.
some may have heard of the term "ugly duckling syndrome" from the movie Shallow Hal (if you dont understand after I explain this, then look it up and watch the movie; but watch the movie either way).. the Ugly Duckling Syndrome basically says that the person grew up not being so attractive, so in order to survive they developed a great personality and once they matured, they developed great looks and the personality never changed, creating the “perfect girl”. (this term does NOT have to mean that the person WAS ugly before, it can mainly be used to refer to the humble personality that they have for being so attractive) cuz we all know there are those people out there that get hit on and get the attention and turn out to be the biggest bitch/asshole. . . its very rare to come across a genuinely beautiful humble girl, and Its has become my mission to find the one that captures my attention and heart without turning out to be fake..
the typical guy puts up a front.. he acts all nice when you meet him.. giving you his "A game" and makes you think he's the greatest person in the world.. soon you think things are too good and you dot want to miss out so you go for him.. but as many, if not all of you women have noticed.. you fell into a trap.. it WAS too good to be true.. many guys play these games and then turn out to be the biggest asshole you’ve ever met.. it’s because these guys aren’t being real.. yet you find their fakeness attractive.. no wonder so many women get fucked over.. but don’t get me wrong.. there ARE guys out there that are real and genuinely caring and DO mean what they say..
personally, I don’t like playing games..if anything, I usually put up a wall.. my “front” is NOT giving someone the real me until I feel she has (not to sound arrogant) earned it. I’ve been lied to, used, and hurt before and it has been somewhat hard to distinguish between those who care, and those who only wish to take advantage of my sincerity.. Not only that, but I’m not the typical guy, nor do I wish to be treated like one.. and like we all know.. when we want something worth while, we must work for it..
I have a lot to offer.. I know what I want and what I deserve so I don’t put up with bullshit.. I know what I’m capable of I bring a lot to the table when it comes to relationships.. I may come off as cocky to some or appear to have an attitude.. but for those who actually know more about personalities.. its confidence in who I am and knowledge about myself and knowing who I should be around.. I’m not a typical guy trying to get in a girl’s pants.. yes.. I’m affectionate and may be sexual with those who appeal to my interest, but I’m not here to play games, so I don’t want the typical girl who thinks she deserves things she doesn’t..
I'm very real no matter if its with my guy friends or when meeting a girl... I am who I am and I tell it like it is.. so I expect girls to be the same with me.. if anything.. getting to know me gets better with time. some of my female friends have said that I'm an asshole at 1st and then turn out to be the complete opposite (contrary of the typical guy who turns into an asshole after being “nice” in the beginning)...
But ive managed to find the girls that fit the bitch description.. just like how girls seem to suck at picking guys.. I suck at picking girls.. Somehow I’ve met lots of amazing girls that just weren’t able to capture my heart, and I end up giving the chance to those that lie and deceive me.. a lot of the girls I end up with take me for granted and use me.. either that or they end up being pathological liars and don’t know how to be straight up and honest with me.. I don’t understand why girls have to lie about even the little things..to me.. it’s the little things that matter.. just the fact that they lied, whether it be something small or not, makes everything worse for them.. admitting you lied is the 1st step to making things right.. some of these girls don’t understand that..
Lastly, I want a girl who doesn’t want to settle down, but KNOWS when to settle down… and doesn’t “settle” when looking for a relationship.. it seems like every girl these days is so caught up in the idea of having a boyfriend that they SETTLE with the 1st guy that comes along.. It’s actually pretty sad, just as much as it is frustrating to see the immaturity of these decisions that these girls make.. Relationships are serious, but it seems that girls just don’t take them that way.. Maybe they’re just desperate because they end up picking assholes anyways that they don’t think it will last anyways so they pick whomever. You can’t just pick someone and try to like them and hope you become bf and gf.. you can’t just jump into a relationship without having some type of foundation and hope it will last.. you have to actually like them and WANT to be with them and believe in your heart that you two belong together.. yes, sometimes these “spontaneous” relationships last.. but its never what it could have been had both parties mutually felt strongly enough for each other to be serious about it.
I may have not been very specific with things I wanted.. and learned more towards things I DON’T want.. but I was just writing from what comes to mind.. so……
I'll just change this up to my LIKES and DISLIKES
What do I like?
I like having fun.. Meeting new people, making new friends, and being around people that make me happy and like being around me.. I value friendship so much because true friends are fun and always there for you and can get you through life so much easier and will bring you happiness and laughter along the way..
What do I NOT like?
~People that judge - Why must someone be labeled without even being known that well? Just like people who look at someone and choose not to talk to them because they THINK they already know how they are..
~Criticizing - What makes that person any better? We are all JUST human, we are not perfect, we make mistakes and some of us aren't fortunate enough to have the things other people have;
~Liars – with me, even the little lies count. Especially when you barely meet someone and they try to gain your trust, but begin by telling little “fibs”. Lies only lead to more lies and then you’ve got yourself in a shitty situation that coulda been avoided had you told the truth. I try my best to not lie; Sagittarius’ are one of the most honest signs in the zodiac :-D ;
~Cheaters -if you're gonna cheat on someone, why the hell are you with them? Don’t waste your time or theirs; people have feelings you know, imagine if your mom fucked over your dad or if your dad cheated on your mom; maybe it was your brother or sister that got played; or what if YOU got played? How would you feel?; and Ladies.. if you don't like guys cheating on you.. STOP TAKING THEM BACK AFTER THEY DO IT! FUCK! no wonder you guys keep getting cheated on.. you keep taking back the fuckin asshole thats doing it to you over and over again.. don't be so ignorant!
~Hypocrites/people that keep contradicting and it's way too obvious for them not to know - So how come it's ok for you to do it, but not for me or them? I’ll admit, I’ve done some contradictory things in my time, but I try to make it a habit not to;
~People that are fake - acting one way with you and different when you're not around (like talking shit)/2 faced; or that try to be something they're not) It’s better to be hated for something you are, then loved for something you are not. Be REAL!;
~Ignorance – when will you ever learn!? Probably one of the top pet peeves of mine. I HATE ignorant people, and have no patience for stupid shit.;
~Drama – Don’t be bringing any of that high school kiddie shit here. If you’re an adult, then act like one. Especially those people who think they’re the shit and are too “proud” to feel insecure and think they have to prove themselves and fight someone or talk shit. How fuckin’ retarded is that? Sorry fellas, trying to pick a fight wont make your 3 inch penis any bigger;
~Beating around the bush -Whatever happened to just being straight up? The whole playing games this is high school kid shit. If you don’t wanna talk to someone, or like someone and want to tell them, or WHATEVER the situation may be.. don’t be blunt with it (to a certain extent)...JUST SAY IT.. IGNORING someone a few times might not drop that hint that you don’t want to talk to them.. some people are just too busy sometimes and people think they are being ignored by them when they are not. JUST BE HONEST!
~Broken promises - If you're gonna promise me something.. you better keep your word because soon my trust in you will be slowly fade away. For me.. saying “I swear”, “I promise” or even the classic “pinkie promise” means a lot;
~Flakes - Kinda goes with the broken promises.. but when you make plans, you should keep them.. Been flaked on too much and kinda shows the type of friends people are when they leave you hangin;
~People that seem to have tunnel vision/close minded/pesimistic - open up your mind.. don’t be so negative.. the glass is not always half empty.. Quit paying attention to the stupid little defects, because you'll be missing out on all the great positive things that mean a hell of a lot more. People tend to pay more attention to people when they cry and less to people when they smile, and it makes them think that they are sad all the time even though they might smile most of the time.
~Girls that definately don’t need make up and still pound it on.. for god's sake ladies, if a guy tells you you're beautiful, take his word.. after all who are you putting on the make up for?; who are you trying to impress (I know sometimes you wanna impress yourself, but try doing it by not wearing much makeup and still lookin good, much more impressing)?
Once again for those who are reading what I’m saying the wrong way… No where on this page have I stated that I’m perfect. NO ONE IS PERFECT! I simply stated bluntly things that I don’t like and try to avoid. So if you are immature.. then GROW THE FUCK UP!
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