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_BlackVelvet_
"The only ones among you who will be truly happy are those who have sought and found how to serve."
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58 years old 
-, CALIFORNIA 
US
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_BlackVelvet_ ... A upa...ne! Ka upa....ne! *closing my eyes and taking that thought further into my heart*
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I am ...
Anaïs Nin
Beauty for Sir
Last Profile Login: 1/5/2012
Last World Login: 3/15/2011
Member Since: 7/22/2008
General Info
I Am Here For: To Meet People, To have fun!
Marital Status: N/A
Children: Have children
Education: Post Grad
Religion: Spiritual, but not Religious
Smoke: No
Drink: Yes
Occupation: Corporate Finance
Body Type: Average
Height: 5' 6"
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
Languages: -
Sexy Stuff
I Am Looking For: Loving guidance

Sexual Fantasies: *blushing*
Sex is Best: When I serve him well *smiles*
Cybersex: N/A
I Want You To: Be a true and honest friend
Cybersex Personality: -
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About me:

“…curious way that my idealism has been mixed with my fatalism, so that I can possess the soul of a dreamer and that of a cynic at the same time…”

~ Anaïs Nin ~


I am a submissive woman

That is my core ... my essense. It has been hard fought ... it has caused me the greatest joy and worst pain of anything in my life. Yet, I know now that it is who and what I am meant to be ... and I am no longer complete if that part of my self is not nurtured and fed. Every day I strive to become more ... more beautiful, inside and out ... with knowledge, understanding, grace and dignity ... more loving ... and more submissive.


As I return to my Self
Finding the strength and beauty that is me
Holding onto the submission that is mine
I see, finally, the true beauty and value
... of the gift I have to offer ...




"And the day came
when the risk it took to remain tightly closed in a bud
was more painful than the risk it took to bloom




I am no bird; and no net ensnares me;
I am a free human being with an independent will…
Yet within my heart, mind and soul there exists a burning need.
Only when HIS arms ensnare me
and my independent will ... Can joyously bend to HIS will
shall I find the peace of who I am.






They who dream by day are cognizant of many things
which escape those who dream only by night.

~ Edgar Allan Poe ~


I believe in strong, beautiful, honorable women, who know how to love deep and from the soul...

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And I believe in my core that it takes a very strong man to love a strong woman... to be secure enough in himself to support her in her success... to be sure enough in himself to guide her on her path... and to be strong enough in himself to allow her to feel safe and secure in yielding to him.

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Who I'd like to meet:
My mother... she died of breast cancer 13 years ago at the young age of 50. I would love to know her as her older self and have her know the woman I've become. But I feel her spirit in me and I trust that she watches over me and *smiles* as she sees me change and grow.

I love to either walk or crew the 60 mile breast cancer walks each year... I do so in memory of my mother, to support those who have been affected by breast cancer in their lives, either themselves or with a loved one, and to soak in all that wonderful, positive female energy.

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Interests:
MY BOYS! Guiding my sons as they grow into wonderful, strong young men has been my driving force.

FOOTBALL! Mostly high school and college (Pac-10)... I love to watch them while they're still excited about the sport *grins* Pro teams... CA all the way, baby... Raiders and Chargers (in that order).


My Favorite Websites:
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Music:
Any music that touches my soul... from classical to punk... with a tendancy to listen more to classic or alternative rock. There are certain songs or albums that I could listen to over and over for hours on end, depending on my mood.



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Movies:
Love action and horror flicks (I am a TOTAL adrenaline junky!) as well as comedy and an occasional chick flick (as long as it is with my girlfriends). The ones I will watch over and over? The Secretary (if you haven't seen it, GET IT), any of the Die Hard movies, Adam Sandler, Stepmom and The Banger Sisters (with my girlfriends and a HUGE box of kleenex) and, because of my mom... Gone With the Wind and The African Queen

Books:
I enjoy mysteries and suspense novels as well as fantasy and erotica. A lot of Dean Koontz, Anne Rice, A. N. Roquelaure, Stephen King, Michael Connelly, Patricia Cornwell, etc., etc.

 

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Thursday, March 17, 2011 10:13 AM PSTReport Links

... so what are we going to do first: ...
... coffee or shopping thinking of getting a new pair of shoes ...
... Manolo blahnik perhaps... …
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... thank you for being there for me whenever i need you sis …
… xoxo ... Ayana ...

 
Monday, February 7, 2011 11:01 AM PSTReport Links

... Oh, I have almost forgot ...
... Have a great week, muahhh ...
... mine will be just perfect ;) ...

 
Monday, February 7, 2011 10:56 AM PSTReport Links

... I have been waiting and waiting and wai... ...
... and here you are on my Frends list again ;) ...
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... Thank you for accepting my friend request ...
... I have missed you very much ...
... xoxo ... Ayana ...

 
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Christmas Greeting Pictures, Images and Photos :) and every happiness and success in the New Year (: xoox

 
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xo Pandora

 
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Have a good weekend. Don't shop tooooo much!

 
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