 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People, For any other possibilities, give me ideas. |
| Marital Status: |
Swinger |
| Children: |
I don't want children |
| Education: |
N/A |
| Religion: |
Atheist |
| Smoke: |
Yes |
| Drink: |
Yes |
| Occupation: |
N/A |
| Body Type: |
Average |
| Height: |
5' 57" |
| Ethnicity: |
Asian |
| Languages: |
English, Indonesian |
Sexy Stuff
| I Am Looking For: |
Real Life Relationship |
| Sexual Fantasies: |
Fetishes, Swapping, Domination, Bondage, Toys, Multiple People, Sadism & Masochism, Massage Oil |
| Sex is Best: |
Passionate, Experimental, With a Stranger, Wild, Kinky |
| Cybersex: |
N/A |
| I Want You To: |
Play Along With My Fantasy, Tell Me You Love Me, Meet Me In Person If We Really Click, Make Me Do It, Teach Me New Tricks, Tell Me Your Fantasy |
| Cybersex Personality: |
Seductress/Seductor, Submissive, Dominating, Threesomes, The More The Merrier, Fun With Toys, Nasty, Adventurous, Kinky, Aggressive, Wild |
My Web Gifts
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Social Status
| Popularity: | 0 |
| Karma: | 0 |
| Sexiness: | 0 |
| Friendliness: | 0 |
negotiableaffect's Scoop
About me:
Because we get to have so little honest, intimate, beautifully dangerous sex that they can sell us flat images of it instead. Because we spend so much more time contemplating these representations than having sex that when we do sleep together, it is more a meeting of roles than of individualsand not supportive or satisfying roles, at that. Because the most radical of us would still rather speak fancifully of total revolution than dare a moment of actual experimentation in a field that really matters, like our beds. Because as long as our own sexualities are constructed by the media of silence and the culture of violence, each of us is a Trojan horse bearing our own enemies (the values of domination and submission, the paralysis of fear and shame) everywhere we go.
It's time to stop being spectators and start being actors (or agents, if you prefer, the double meaning being very much intended), to take our desires back by converting our sex lives from passive recreation into active re-creation. And to do this, we must first replace the representations of sex in our lives and all around us with real sex.
Sexuality as artnow there's a start. But more art "about" sexuality? It's doubtful that the world of images will ever belong to us again . . . that's just another diversion of our attention to that domain from this world, where we should be practicing doing, being, feeling with one another, not with the dangerous safety of an object. Make love and speak about your best kept secrets, your blackest needs, the demands the culture of fear places on your sexuality, held hostage as it is (never fear, you're not the only one who thinks you have things to hideyour secret's safe with all of us!) . . . We can get out of here, together, but first we have to be honest to figure out where the fuck we are!
To find indulgences that simultaneously satisfy and subvert our programmed, poisonous desires, and thus remake ourselvesthat is the key.
Who I'd like to meet:
If your idea of seventh heaven is having perfect sex with a beautiful partner, dispel it. Heaven cannot be an isolated moment of life; it has to be a complete way of living, or else it will be just another barren myth to denigrate and impoverish the moments of our real experience. Better that we find ways to make every moment of life as exciting as great sex can be (and believe me, it can be done!), considering that we can't have sex all the timesuch a thing would get boring, anyway, since living has so many facets we must not neglect! You can feel and share passion as deeply while building puppets for street demonstrations together, sneaking onto rooftops for late night conversations, or stowing away on ferryboats. Most people just haven't had the chance to be free and wild together anywhere outside the bedroom yetand consequently, it hardly comes naturally between the sheets.
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